What do you think?

Jesse · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 11:54 am

Brian wrote:

P.S. High five Jess, we found something we agree on... you go girl.

Hey wait a minute... we agree on "dirty" jokes too!!

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Jesse · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 11:56 am

Brian wrote:

Here is a twist.
If a person from the same gender give your spouce a nice comment about their looks would you still be offended or conserned?

WoW Gav, you have some nice looking legs there buddie.

Do you take it in the same way, or do you take it as a joke? If you take it as a joke, then why? If you think its because you know I'm not Gay and in no way would I ever do anything about it.
So what is different then If I said: WoW Jess, you have some nice looking legs.
You know I'm married and in no way would I ever do anything about it. SO I ask, does it make a different?

In my opinion I think alot of it falls on how well you know a person. I take comments alot different from a person that I don't know, then a person that is family or is a good friend.

Good topic so far BTW.

I'm responding as I read... so I think I just said the same thing that you did Laughing

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Jesse · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 12:04 pm

Bethie wrote:

Do you think its ok for a man/woman to comment about another man/womans LOOKS at all? Do you think Mrs. White would have said the same thing to another man? Given, times are certainly different, but does that really make it ok to do now?

You already said that y'all comment on people that you see on TV. Doesn't everyone??

Sinful thoughts can be had about celebs as well as people we know. It's probably just more threatening if it's someone that you actually have chance to talk to or meet.

Is commenting on someone's looks judging? Should we judge? Gavin and I see people on TV and we say "Wow she has a nice face" or "He's good looking, he'll be moving up in Hollywood soon" or "She looks like a stick bug!"

There's nothing wrong with acknowledging that someone is attractive. There are several men (and I think women) in the Bible that are described as being very handsome or beautiful to look upon. We all have eyes, we can't help but see.

If I lose the 20 lbs that I'd like to and get back into my wedding dress comfortably again I'd better hear some comments on how good I'm looking!!

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Bethie · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 12:16 pm

Were you planning on wearing you wedding dress somewhere? lol

Jesse · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 12:24 pm

I just like to know that I can still fit into it.... ahh the good old days... the 3 months that I got to be skinny before getting pregnant.

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Bethie · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 12:25 pm

I can still fit in mine, which is wierd since its -2 and now i'm a 8/10.

Jesse · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 12:31 pm

I still fit..... it's just umm.... I kind of pour out of the top of it... and I have to hold my breathe a little... it's just not as comfortable.

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Brian · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 12:34 pm

Why is this conversation making me think of the TV show "Friends"? Some how I can picture you two sitting on the porch in the rockers in your wedding dresses waiting Gid and Dunk playin.

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Jesse · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 12:48 pm

Hey Beth want to do that one day?? We should wear big point crowns and wave at the neighbors going by too!

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Bethie · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:05 pm

Lol, heck, i'm in! I paid $1,200 for it, i should get SOME use outta it! Think Norma would call the cops? lol

Jesse · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:07 pm

No but I think Jack's friends might ask what we're selling

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Bethie · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:10 pm

HAHAHA...that they would.

Lynelle · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 1:26 pm

Ya know I have NO idea what Brian said, but to me, if you think that someone has nice legs, or whatever, just let it die on your lips. Just WHAT is the purpose of telling someone that you were looking closely enough at some part of their body that you have to compliment them on it?

Now no one has ever told me that I have nice legs and I guess that's becasue I keep them covered up. HOWEVER summer is coming and I will be able to forgo my nice warm, comfy thermals and I expect LOTS of compliments..........

But in the male leg department, Lee has everyone beat. So next time Bri, I will be listening for you to tell him!

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Brian · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 3:21 pm

I said WHAT IF... what if, I don't go around saying things like that to guys.... WHAT IF

Oh and yeah, I have no idea what I said either, so if you figure it out let me know.

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Lynelle · Subject: Re: What do you think? Thu Apr 05, 2007 4:21 pm

Brian wrote:

I said WHAT IF... what if, I don't go around saying things like that to guys.... WHAT IF

Oh and yeah, I have no idea what I said either, so if you figure it out let me know.

Oh sure Brian... nice backpedaling, nope, sorry, it's out there for all to see on your post.... you admire Gavins legs............

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