Debating Debating

Jesse · Subject: Re: Debating Debating Wed Dec 20, 2006 1:35 pm

Amanda wrote:

So, prove me wrong if it's something we disagree on. Show me the how/where/why/when/etc. that will make me change my mind. That is why I ask questions.

I think that's why it's adventageous to have some discussions/debates online b/c it gives us the opportunity to say what we want without being interrupted or distracted by others comments or body language. Personally it gives me time to better gather my thoughts and have a little self inflection before I respond. (That is when I take the time to gather my thoughts and have self inflection).

Amanda wrote:

... it comes across (to me) as an excuse that is used in order to avoid the situation.

What happens, for me personally, is when I sence attitude I don't even want to respond anymore. It only leads to pointless bickering. So I don't have a problem not dicussing a topic anymore. If someone already has assumed opinions about me there's nothing I can do on here to change it for the better. All I can do it stop being a part of the conversation and hope to present myself as a better person the next time they're around.

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Amanda · Subject: Re: Debating Debating Wed Dec 20, 2006 1:36 pm

Jesse wrote:

Brian wrote:

Thats funny... thats what we thought about you Jess. Maybe we have two exact same personalities, and thats our problem.

Amanda and I already knew we had that problem.

I don't mind if someone that I actually think cares about me wants to kindly enlighten me on ways I could be nicer to others or on how b**chy I am. So at the current time that exludes Jared and Brian. I don't think necessarily that you hate me Brian (you might but I hope not) but I do think you would rather get a rise out of me than help me better myself. PickOn

Um, not to be mean...but Brian prefers to get a rise out of anyone. It gives him great entertainment. Twisted, I know. Smile

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Brian · Subject: Re: Debating Debating Wed Dec 20, 2006 1:40 pm

I'm truly sorry you think that way. Tonight ask Gav who told him that she should date you cause they thought you would make a great couple. If doesn't remember (which he will) remind him it was at our apartment pool in richmond.

Granted I don't agree with 99% of anything you say, but I blame that on the puss and blood we/I consume so much of. But just cause I don't agree with you, doesn't mean I don't love and care about you. Yes I love to get a rise out of you, but I know you like to get one out of me to. By the way Digital cameras are way better! So since I'm on the list, I'll stop. Anyone know if Jig has tried to Top Tyler yet, I'm sure Jig can shoot himself atleast twice.

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Jesse · Subject: Re: Debating Debating Wed Dec 20, 2006 2:04 pm

Brian wrote:

By the way Digital cameras are way better!

Have you been ignoring my other posts since I'm such a crap??

I have a digital camera now too!

However I will still use a regular camera for when I want pictures to go in an album... old habits are hard to break.

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Brian · Subject: Re: Debating Debating Wed Dec 20, 2006 2:11 pm

Jesse wrote:

Have you been ignoring my other posts since I'm such a crap??

I would hope you know be better then that.... I'm not going to ignore you just cause of something you say.. if anything its going to make me say something. You have to remember, I do all my posting from work, so I don't always get a chance to read everything, hence the reason for a mod... aka a helper. If I don't say something, then I just don't have anything to say.

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Brian the Grand master! - Gavin

Brian · Subject: Re: Debating Debating Wed Dec 20, 2006 4:12 pm

I moved the film topic to the general section... Topic

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Brian the Grand master! - Gavin

Ginnifer · Subject: Re: Debating Debating Mon Jan 22, 2007 12:22 pm

Debating debating. Well, I would just like to say that if you don't like debating, don't open the page!!!!!

I love debating, but I don't have the time to get on hear and read half of the things being debated.

I like seeing Brian pick on someone other than me, though, so I pop in here occasionally.

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Jig · Subject: Re: Debating Debating Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:14 pm

Hrm. There are things better left unsaid, I know. Unfortunately I've always had a humdinger of a time figuring out which of the things I want to say needs to remain unsaid.

Yes, I said humdinger. So there.

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